Family Campfire Night in the Backyard

What it's about

Set up a firepit or chiminea in the backyard after dark, get everyone in layers, and commit to a couple hours around the fire. Bring out s'mores supplies, tell a round-robin story where each person adds a sentence, and just sit together without screens. It scratches the camping itch for families who can't swing a full trip.

Why it works

There's something about fire that makes everyone slow down and talk. Kids who won't sit still at the dinner table will happily sit by a fire for an hour. It feels like an event without actually requiring much planning.

What to expect

You'll need a firepit or chiminea — a cheap one from a hardware store works fine. Plan for about two hours. It's a fall and winter favorite but works in any season; in summer, start later so it's actually dark. Check local fire ordinances if you're not sure your area allows backyard fires.

How to set it up

1. 01

   Set up your firepit or chiminea at least a few feet from anything flammable and grab dry wood or a bundle from a hardware store.

2. 02

   Gather s'mores supplies: graham crackers, chocolate, marshmallows, and roasting sticks or long forks.

3. 03

   Get everyone in warm layers and bring out a blanket or two for the little ones.

4. 04

   Light the fire about 20 minutes before you want to sit — let it get going before everyone comes out.

5. 05

   Start with s'mores, then kick off the round-robin story: you set a wild opening line and let everyone add to it in turns.

6. 06

   Let the fire die down naturally and end with everyone naming one thing they liked about the night.

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